Negativity vs Positivity

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The difference between negativity and positivity is simple: 


Negativity, is when you start assuming that things will go wrong even before they do. 


Positivity, is when you remain calm when things go wrong, knowing there is a solution lurking around somewhere just waiting to be found.

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